Top 10 Things to Look For and Avoid with Indian Women

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Indian News

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Let’s review the Top 10 Things to Look For and Avoid with Indian Women.

Generally speaking, if you’re going to attempt to date Indian (Desi) women in the U.S. or any other western country, then there are some things to look out for. These include both the good and bad, while dating or before getting married.

For starters, it’s worth pointing out that no doubt Indian women are absolutely some of the most elegant, beautiful women in the world. They are also some of the most classy, loving, and ambitious – making some of the best wives. So, if you’re interested in dating an Indian girl and possibly marrying her one day, read on.

1. Culture and Closeness to Family

These two major keys should be used as a guide to not only know what type of women to look for, but also as a way to learn more about her through her family. In other words, if she’s close to her family or parents then great, and this will make it easier to get to know her – and vice versa.

Often, including men, how close a person is with his or her mother and family says a lot about that individual. And, while typically Indian women will not have their entire family with them, more than likely they’ll have at least their most critical parts.

So, this, in addition to cultural values and traditions should be seen as a “green light” for you to date your Indian girl or girlfriend.

2. Indian Women on Dating Sites

Believe it or not, while tempting, the truth is that the internet can a both very good, and very bad way to go about meeting new people and women.

In the case of meeting an Indian girl, unless she’s local to you, or planning to move to your country, then chances are she’ll expect you to come to her.

So, while this might be worth it for some, it’s definitely something to keep in mind, in addition to a number of scams, or other difficulties associated with finding and dating an Indian girl – especially online.

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3. Looking for Values and Ethics

Make no mistake, Indian women are very intelligent, intuitive, and well-cultured. Therefore, there’s no excuse for her not to be well-versed on morals, ethics, and general compassion for other human beings.

And, while rare, there is going to be your fair share of unwanted, prude, self-absorbed, or otherwise entitled Indian women worth avoiding. Many of these types of women put on a fake face for you, and in the end, will bring both lots of hardship and pain.

So, while it’s understandable that with moving to a new country and culture the Indian girl you meet is bound to change a little and be influenced, this doesn’t mean that she came from a place without morals, or has any excuse for not having them now.

No matter what type of girl you’re dating, always keep an eye out for any wolf in sheep’s clothing, as this is your responsibility and are the one that will pay for it the most in the end should it be the case.

4. Responsible Women and Your Responsibilities

Understand this, any man that is serious about dating an Indian girl to create a meaningful, long-term relationship and potential future with should definitely be wary of any woman that comes off as irresponsible. This includes an Indian girl with a visible drinking problem, drugs, anger, temper, emotional instability like depression, or any other unusual impressions.

Likewise, should you be seeking a responsible woman you yourself should be a responsible man, know what you want, and articulate this to her. Remember, if you’ve met an Indian girl in the U.S. then chances are both her and her family have fought very hard to get where they are today.

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Therefore, the chances are more than likely in your favor that she is indeed responsible, mature, and even experienced – perhaps more than you might expect or even more than you. So, keep this strongly in mind and use it as your ‘guiding light’ for finding the most practical Indian girl for you.

5. Shyness and Humility

The truth is, if the Indian girl you are dating or considering marrying is shy, and demonstrates humility then chances are she’s a great pick.

The last thing you want is a conceited, or spoiled Indian girl wreaking havoc on your life. And, just remember, it doesn’t necessarily take an Indian girl to present these types of problems – so apply this advice across the board.

Also, if your Indian girl is shy – at least at first – then chances are you should have a substantial amount of patience, love, and understanding, or it’ll likely create a lot of conflict for you both in the future.

6. Forward and Expressive

If you’re looking to get the most mature, meaningful Indian girl into your life then try to find one that is forward and openly expresses herself. Communication, understandably, is huge in any relationship – and dating a Desi girl is by no means an exception.

Also, forwardness shows not only confidence but also a certainty, and more than likely will also help you better determine whether or not she is an honest, sincere, and likely to be loyal girlfriend or wife.

7. Lying and Immaturity

This might not be obvious, but the truth is if you’re dating an Indian girl or foreigner then chances are she will be able to hide certain things or behave differently than what you might be used to.

So, you must pay special attention to any potential lying, don’t be afraid to question her or her motives, but at the same time be reasonable, not overbearing, and do not come off or behave insecurely and act paranoid.

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In other words, you must find a balance, and one that will also work for both of you in the future.

Also, yes, of course, maturity is very important. So, beautiful or not, if she’s acting immature now, then chances are she’ll continue to in the future, and that this is only the beginning.

Unless you enjoy pain, drama, and hardship, then steer clear and know that there are plenty of another Indian girl’s available, so don’t be discouraged, and just keep looking.

8. Mutual Respect and Love

May it be in the ways you physically and verbally interact with one another or the ways you treat each other in front of others – never underestimate the value and purpose of respect.

Most importantly, do no ever forget that it goes both ways. Not having the respect of, or respecting your Indian girlfriend is a sure-fire way to create endless pain, drama, and misery. So, why do things the hard way?

There are plenty of educated, loving, and sincere Indian women in the U.S. that have dreamed of, and would just love to date and even marry an American man to start a family with, so keep your head held high and be the type of man you want your own children to be one day.

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9. Communication and Support

This ties a bit into the previous point, but just remember, support goes both ways. And this is not by any means just about financial or even physical support.

In many ways, this is meant to illustrate the value and importance of your Indian girlfriend being both communicative and supporting you through both the good times and the bad throughout life.

Desi women are very loving, supportive, and strong themselves, so don’t settle for less and be sure to find one that equally supports you as you are willing to support her.

10. Education Work and Ambitions

Desi girls are intelligent, ambitious, and know how to get what they want. They are, hands down, some of the most meaningful types of women you can have a relationship with – and will no doubt will go on to be some of the most successful professionals and scholars in the world. So, why not be a part of that with her?

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It is natural to be attracted to a woman that likes to study, work, read, and learn. Wisdom, of course, is invaluable, so if and when you come across an Indian girl that values it, hold on tight, and never let her go.

Lastly, accept feminism as very important to Indian women, and rather than talk about it or express an uneducated opinion, do your research first so you can truly understand why your Indian girlfriend talks and feels the ways she does.

This, undoubtedly, is hands down the best way to ensure a happy, long, meaningful relationship with the Desi woman of your dreams! Just remember, respect goes both ways, so while you learn about and discuss her culture or views with her, don’t be afraid to express yours too, and stand your ground.

An Indian girl loves confidence, and seeks a strong, intelligent, and wise man to spend the rest of her life with – and there’s no reason that can’t be you!

Dating an Indian Woman: How to Set Yourself Apart

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Indian News


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Indian (Desi) women are some of the most mesmerizing, elegant, and ambitious women in the world. From their sexy skin tones to their long, natural hair and mesmerizing brown eyes, they are sure to knock you off your feet. But, how do you land the Desi woman of your dreams, and keep her?

Well, for starters, it’s critical that you know that competition is not only great, but, that also a lot of traditional Desi parents will be partially against you dating or marrying their daughter for likely a handful of reasons. Therefore, you’re going to have to put a lot of work into the relationship, standing apart, securing your love, and ultimately taking things to the next level.

For starters, not only impressing, but also showing a genuine interest in, and getting to know her family is a major plus. And, while on the topic of her closest family and loved ones, much like her native home you should expect the possibility that her native language is not only not English, but also not Hindi. So, it would behoove you – if you’re in a serious relationship – should you be interested in taking things to the next level, to ask and learn about her local, native tongue and learn a few words or phrases.

Regularly conversing in her own language with her and showing a genuine interest will not only get you ‘brownie points’ but is also a surefire way to maximize the possibility of taking your relationship to the next level.

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Demonstrate Potential and Adaptability

First, understand that demonstrating not only potential, but also a flexibility and certain level of physical and emotional strength is definitely a great way to go. This will show her that you not only have physical and emotional strength, but that you can also support her.

Given how ambitious, educated, and dedicated most Indian women are in pursuing higher education and achieving the best career possible, chances are you will have to meet each other somewhere half way. So, in order to make things work and make the best of your relationship when a Desi girl, try to make it a point to talk about things like this upfront. That is, study, and discover the types of ambitions, school, or current career involvement they have to decide if you’re likely to be a good match.

Outside of being chivalrous – which especially as a foreigner will demonstrate major desirability – also being different and showing not only your desi lover but also yourself your aspirations and true potential makes the most sense. Showing intelligence and this type of potential, while remaining independent yourself – although willing to fight for and support your Desi lover – is one of the best ways to secure a serious, meaningful, and happy future together. It sounds a little complicated, but we promise you can do it!

How well do you know your Desi girlfriend, and how well does she know you? This will greatly dictate how well you “click”, balance each other’s chemistry, and your overall potential to live a long, meaningful life together.

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Show a Genuine Interest in Her Culture: Don’t be a “phony”

In all seriousness, no one likes a fake, especially women. So, before you go off to your Indian girlfriend talking about how well you know Desi films, or love Shahrukh Khan, etc. although admirable, make certain you know what you’re talking about.

The last thing you want is for your desi lover to feel like you’re trying to manipulate her or be someone you’re not. In fact, if you aren’t yet up to speed on the most popular Desi or Bollywood films and superstars, showing a genuine interest in them with her, and making a date to go see one together can be equally meaningful and profitable for your relationship.

Speaking of sincerity, know that generally speaking, Indian women do not open up very easily, so if yours is with you then chances are she is very serious about you and values your relationship together.

Earning a desi woman’s trust is a big thing, so take pride in that – and don’t ever ruin it or take it for granted. And, while it’s great to have an opinion, also know when to listen to your Desi girlfriend so that she feels you care and truly love her for the person she is – not just her looks or because she’s Indian.

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Parting Ways: Final Advice

Last but not least, just as you should with any relationship and woman, don’t be pushy – may it be about anything from marriage, all the way to sex. And, know that Indian or desi women absolutely love romanticism – so that could be the obstacle or “problem” you might be experiencing. (No worries, we’ve all been there, and it’s never too late to fix things and turn that around.)

Know that Desi women take pride in not only themselves and reputation, but also how much they are trusted by others– so you should be comfortable doing so. Do not try to control her – they are like free and wild butterflies – and doing so, or “smothering” her will only lead to pushing her away.

Don’t be overly abrasive, aggressive or sexually suggestive with your Desi date or girlfriend. If they want to be involved with you in that way they will let you know when, and how.

Want extra points and to really stand out to your Desi date? Listen to, and even practice if possible dancing to Bhangra music, show an interest in, and take your Desi girlfriend out to a place that plays it the next time you go out together.

So to summarize, respect, love, be patient, understanding, learn the language, and don’t neglect to learn the culture. These are all keys to any happy relationship, but, especially one between a foreigner and a Desi woman.

Learn How To Find Indian Brides Online

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Indian News

traditional Indian brideFinding Indian brides is very easy nowadays. This is because most people are nowadays visible on the internet. All a person has to do is register with a popular dating site and post his or her profile. People who may be interested will view the profile and make contact.

It is important to note that there are many dating sites on the internet that can help individuals to find spouses.The right agency will ensure that you find the right match within a very short period of time. A quick internet search will reveal thousands of popular sites with global membership. Reading reviews might help with the search for the right site.

The profile you post on a dating site will determine whether or not women will contact you. The ideal profile should have your name, country, employment status, city, profession, email, and profile photo among other details. Having a photograph in your profile is very important. This is because profiles with photos are normally viewed 10 times more than profiles that do not have photographs.

Since you will not be able to use pick-up lines on women from different parts of the world, your profile will do all the talking for you. It is therefore important that you create an interesting but truthful profile. The profile photo should depict you at your best.

Being specific about what you are looking for is very important. This will narrow down your search for an oriental spouse. Ideally, you should specify the height, body build-up, likes and dislikes of your ideal life partner. You should also specify the preferred level of education and employment status.

Registration is normally free in most dating sites. However, you may be required to pay a fee in order to become a premium member. Setting up an account normally takes a few minutes. After signing up, it is important that you log into your account at least once a day to see if you have any messages from prospective spouses.

There is a common misconception among some internet users that the information they submit during registration may be used for other purposes other than finding Indian brides, like marketing and advertising. The truth is that most reputable sites do not do this. In fact, they keep personal information confidential to protect their members. These sites make it possible for users to hide or reveal their contact details and personal information to specific groups of people or everyone whenever they wish.