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Desi Dating – South Asian Singles Unite!

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Indian Dating

cute desi girlsFor those of you who don’t know what the term Desi means, it refers to a male or female from a south Asian country or who one who has direct ancestors who were born in one of those countries. South Asian countries have different cultural values than the western hemisphere such as the great importance that they place on finding a suitable mate for their family members. Arranged marriages are slowly becoming a thing of the past, but there are still some stipulations that are placed on Desi relationships by family.

The women are expected to marry men who are smart and educated. The men do not have to be wealthy, but they should have good jobs and the ability to care for a family. The men are expected to marry women who are smart and beautiful. Not only are these qualifications expected to be met, but there is also pressure to marry someone from the same ethnic and cultural group.

Desi dating is something that can become quite complicated. If you are looking for a serious relationship or just someone to have fun with, you might run into a problem actually finding someone of the same south Asian culture in your area. There can be a lot of pressure for a young desi man or woman to find someone to settle down with and marry. Most Indian cultures believe that marriage is sacred and something that everyone should have. They do not believe in casual relationships or sex.

Sex outside of marriage is considered to be sinful and taboo along with relationships that don’t have marriage as the goal. However it is possible to move in with the person that you are engaged to as long as you don’t have marital relations before your wedding. It is believed that it is better to live with someone for a while to make sure that it will work out before getting married and committing to the relationship. If you are just living together you can break up and find someone else when things don’t work anymore.

There are several ways to find that special someone outside of your workplace, church, or social life. There are numerous Desi Dating websites that can be very helpful in locating singles in your community. For those of you who are anxious to get married you should check out twomangoes.com. If you are just looking for someone to have a good time with or for a lighter relationship look at desicrush.com.

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Tamil Dating in a Modern World

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Indian Dating

There are approximately 77 million Tamil’s in the world. Tamil people are an ethnic group from Tamil Nadu, India and the north east region of Sri Lanka. Over 85 percent are Hindu with the remaining percentages made up of Christian and Muslim beliefs. Most Tamils have strong feelings about their native language Tamilannai and to a large extent it still defines their identity.

Tamil dating is a rough subject for many Tamil people since their history involves a lot of arranged marriages and inter-racial marriage. Many parents still feel the need to help their daughters find a man to marry even when their daughters don’t want or need help. It is considered a big no-no for a Tamil daughter to not be married by the time she is 30. Parents will often grill the man that is interested in their daughter to make sure that he meets their requirements for marriage. These requirements vary from height to education and family history.  The pressure to be in a relationship with a person that family approves of causes many younger Tamil men and women to hide their love lives from their families.

Traditional Hindu Tamil families have very strong beliefs about marriage and sex. Tamil dating is, in their tradition, a relationship heading towards marriage. Sex before saying ‘I do’ is a very taboo thing. It is believed that sex outside of marriage is a sin and will lead to hell. However many Tamil’s believe that it is ok to live with a partner as long as they are not having sexual relations before marriage.

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Due to the pressure to marry a pure Indian woman there are men who will give up the woman that they are in love with to marry someone that their family approves of rather than face the wrath of family traditions.  Other men will have extramarital affairs with the woman that they are in love with along with marrying a woman that their family helps choose or approves of.

In the western hemisphere there are many complications in family life as many Tamil men and women are converting to western beliefs about dating and sex. Sometimes when that happens if the parents are not open to western beliefs they will be totally cut off from the family. The parents will cut off all communication between them and their child and will pretend that they no longer exist.

There are many websites devoted to helping Tamil’s find partners all over the world that would be approved by their family. One example of these websites is UKasianmatch.com an online matchmaking site devoted to helping Tamil singles in England, Scotland, Wales, and North Ireland to find relationships, marriage and love.

Hindu Dating Ideas

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Indian Dating

hindu woman for datingHindu dating has become a more and more popular occurrence over the last several years. Customary traditions are being forsaken and single men and women are taking finding love into their own hands. Luckily dating for Hindus is something that is fun and exciting with plenty of possibility for the relationship that you are after.

Ideas for Your Date

Going on a date provides the perfect opportunity to have a wonderful time with a person of the opposite sex. During that date you can converse and share with one another while getting to know so much about each other. There is no wrong place for the date to take place, as long as it is something that both people enjoy doing.

By far the most popular place for a date to take place is at a coffee shop. Coffee shops provide a public space with a quiet, intimate setting where talking can easily be done. And, for those who are on limited budgets, coffee shops are affordable first dates!

The tried and true happy hours are also a great place to take your date. Ensure that drinking is something she doesn’t mind (or something she partakes in) before scheduling a date at a bar. Perhaps throwing back a couple of cold ones can remove the tension and awkwardness experienced on some first dates.

Of course you can also extend your dating ideas to something more bold and daring if you wish. Perhaps tickets to a sporting event would serve as the ultimate date for you and the lucky lady. Museums, art galleries and festivals are also popular places to take a date.

Of course a restaurant is also ideal for dating and another very popular place to go. Everyone enjoys eating, and with restaurants far and wide it will be simple to find a restaurant serving great food and a great atmosphere for a date. With such a wide selection of restaurants it is also easy to find one that meets your budget requirements.

Keep Your Cool During Your Date

Dating can be very enjoyable for both parties while helping to fulfill a need to have someone special in your life. Whether you are looking for someone to share a few romantic evenings, a partner to go out on the town with or are looking for a life partner, consider one of these ideas for dating and you cannot go wrong!

Ways to Impress Hot Indian Girls

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Hot Indian Girls

hot india girl in two pieceImpressing a beautiful Indian lady sound like something you could never fathom doing? Making a lasting impression with hot Indian ladies is something that anyone can do, ensuring that a second date is made before the first one even ends.

Making an Impression on Her

Many times men wrongly assume that to impress a girl they need to have the most handsome fast or an athletic body, but this simply isn’t true. A woman likes a man who takes care of himself, a gentleman who dresses well and takes care of himself with grooming and bathing. A bit of cologne and a fresh shower will do more than you would imagine, but that isn’t all that it takes to impress her.

If you really want to impress her be yourself. A woman can spot a fake man a mile away and is a sure turn-off. Be yourself, relax and act natural and she is sure to appreciate it a thousand times more. Talk to her as if she is a normal, everyday person and see how far you will go!

Never be over the top. Another sure turn-off, trying to hard isn’t the best way to make an impression and will not work well in your favor. Although she loves compliments and nice things, doing too much will do nothing more than make her second guess her relationship with you. Never appear to be needy or desperate, but still show you are interested. She is hot, but do not gawk over her!

Even More Ways to Impress Hot Indian Girls

Want more ways to make your impression a lasting impression? Don’t worry. There are plenty additional ways that you can implement into your date for a wonderful impression.

One of those ways to impress is by being in touch with your emotional side. Women love to see a man who can express himself and who isn’t afraid to show his true emotion. She’ll appreciate a man who can cry just as she will appreciate a man that tells her how he truly feels about her or any other situation.

You are also bound to make an impression on even the hottest girls when you show her how interesting and intelligent you are. She can appreciate a man who has a list of hobbies that he enjoys completing, a man who is well-spoken and genuine and is up on the latest current events and news.

Some Tips for Dating In India

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Indian Dating

beautiful indian girls for datingDoes dating in India really exist? You bet it does. While the Indian culture still remains in full tact, times have also changed considerably over the past few decades and dates are becoming more and more popular. Men and women of all ages, usually starting in the teenage years, enjoy conversation, romantic dinners and other benefits of dating as they attempt to find someone sharing the same religion, with the same goals in life, the same interests and one with the same wants and desires.

Even those abiding by customary Indian traditions can enjoy a date with their chosen partner, though this is something seen in only about 75% of the Indian relationships these days.

Making the Date

Whether you are a person who has an arranged meeting of a partner or one who has chosen their own partner, the date is the easiest way to get to know the other person. In India a date takes place and if the two people like each other and wish to continue their relationship, another meeting is prepared. The date can be anything from dining at a restaurant to a walk in a park. In most cases the approval of the parents is an important part of a following date, even in non-traditional arrangements.

Dating can take place for a very short few weeks or many months, depending upon the couple, the type of date and what they are looking for. A date can be taken several nights per week, once per week or less often. Customary procedures would result in marriage to follow these dates regardless of the length of time.

How to Find a Date

If you are one who takes dating into the modern times, finding a date with a beautiful Indian woman can be more difficult than for other cultures. This doesn’t mean that it is impossible, however. With the Internet available these days, making it much easier to find someone that is attractive and meets your standards. Using the web is a wonderful way to find the lady that you have been dreaming of.

Women for dating can also be found in other ways besides the Internet. You never know when you will run into a beautiful woman that you want to see again, and it is possible to find her without even looking. Plus, ladies can be found at a number of entertainment venues, such as restaurants and bars.

So, You Want to Be a Bollywood Girl?

Written by Padmay Lak. Posted in Bollywood Girls

Are you interested in becoming one of the infamous Bollywood girls? Bollywood is the Indian version of Hollywood and you better believe there are plenty of exciting opportunities for those who make it. There are great opportunities for Indian ladies of all ages who are interested in the film industry, ranging from acting to directing and all in between.

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Getting into Bollywood

It doesn’t matter if you are a small town girl, someone who has already made herself established on the scene or never had a minute of experience, you could find yourself staring upon the big lights and making a great deal of money while living out your dream.

The essential step to make your mark is to find the best agency to work with. There are numerous companies helping ladies of all ages make it into Bollywood, but not all of those companies are worth your while.

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The Skills Needed in Bollywood

In order to work in Bollywood you must be able to speak Hindu. Ensure this is a skill that you have before applying.  Dance skills are also extremely helpful in attaining a position.  You must also have other skills as required for the particular parts that interest you.

Finding a Bollywood Agency

In order to find the best agency there are just a few things to look for. First, look for a company with a solid reputation. A company with experience placing women into the scene is a company that you can count on to help get your foot in the door.

Your Bollywood agency should be one that is dedicated to helping you with your start. Get a feel for a particular company and use your instincts to judge whether they are worth your time.  You’ll also want to look for a company that offers a filled portfolio of great work.

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Fees are a part of hiring an agency to assist you, so ensure that you are comparing these fees to get the best deal. Do not sacrifice quality for price, however. The amount that you will spend can be considerable, but will include your portfolio, photographs, marketing and other necessary components of making it big in Bollywood.

Remember, getting into Bollywood is just as difficult as it is to get into Hollywood, and only the best will make it. But with the desire and heart you can be one of the selected women to make it as one of the Bollywood girls!

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